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Farm Name: La Ferme Sabloneuse (Sandy Farm)

Year Farm Established: 1946

Location: Stiles, WI

Years I’ve been farming: 68 years

Animals I raise: None, except wildlife.

Crops I grow: Vegetable gardens, flowers, rye, and pastorage.

Hobbies I enjoy: Feeding and providing habitat for wildlife.

The proudest moment on my farm: For the first time in over 60 years, bobwhite quail was sited on our land.

Pets: Just all sorts of wildlife who visit us daily.

Farm Motto: "All will be well, and all will be well, and all manner of things will be well." -- Blessed Julian of Norwich

Farm Blog
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  Summer Evening
As usual (comme d'habitude, as my ancestors would've put it) I had but one hour this evening available to catch up on tasks here at La Ferme Sabloneuse. I have to admit, I was gratified with what I'd accomplished. Upon returning home from visiting Ma at the nursing home my Ruthie told me that the expected thunderstorms were going to pass to our South and that we would miss out on the rain. I decided, therefore, to water this year's cultivated patch in the valley garden. Starting at a little after 7 pm I ran out two lengths of connected hose down our hill and spent a half-hour irrigating that particular garden. The recent hot spell had caused the sweet corn to tassel out and set out rich, red corn silk. I also noticed one or two pollinated pumpkin blossoms. Thus, I thought it necessary to give the plants enough moisture to ensure that it would survive this temporary dry spell and give up a good yield. After I rolled the hose back up the hill I noticed that the wild raspberries had ripened around the wooden shed in my front woods and I decided to pick some of them. Finally, I had just enough time to pick some yarrow plants that had infested what we call the "Bear Garden". (The yarrows have also started to bloom among the hostas on the slope next to the garage porch but this year I'm leaving them because I think that they too, have a beauty all their own.)

At a little after 8 pm I was thoroughly tuckered out and ready to go in for the night. I sat for a moment in the garage porch and listened to the young goldfinches soar in clockwise circles over the backyard hill as is their wont, joyfully celebrating their newfound ability to fly. After a minute or two, I retired for the evening.

It was a wonderful Summer evening. While I was working, I was reminded that a suburbanite can enjoy a Summer's eve while sitting on his porch. A Countryman however, has to learn to enjoy the evening while attending to his land. --Gary

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07/23/2014 08:41.03 PM Report This Comment  
  Summer Sunday Afternoon
Great work, Gary! I love a good storm, especially in summer! I think storms are a way of reminding us to slow down and just enjoy life!

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07/20/2014 06:23.33 AM Report This Comment  
  Summer Sunday Afternoon, The Tempest, Part III
I watched the silvery undersides of the poplar leaves for a moment or two, and the storm hit. Victor Hugo's famous poem, "The Djinns" describes such a storm far better than I ever could:

"Wild cries of hell! voices that howl and shriek!
The horrid swarm before the tempest tossed—
O Heaven!—descends my lowly roof to seek:
Bends the strong wall beneath the furious host.

Totters the house, as though, like dry leaf shorn
From autumn bough and on the mad blast borne,
Up from its deep foundations it were torn
To join the stormy whirl. Ah! all is lost!"

I don't want to sound snobby, but even as fine a translation as this one loses something in the process. Anyways, the sheets of rain pounded the ground as the winds blew the smaller trees almost horizontal. It rained so hard that even the sandy soil of La Ferme Sabloneuse could not absorb it fast enough and the water ran in rivulets down the hill from the houses to the out-buildings. For a full fifteen minutes the storm raged, thunder and lightning, wind and deluge, until the peals of thunder started coming out of the East and the rain began to slacken. In short order the clouds began to raise and lighten in color and the wind died down. In another few minutes the birds began to sing, the robins especially, as if to announce to all that the storm had passed. As the overcast skies cleared I could see the white thunderheads again, only this time in the East, like the Nordic frost giants of myth, striding into the distance.

The Sun came out again, shining on the wet leaves and grass, making them reflect its light like innumerable glass orbs. The air smelled cool, clean, and fresh. While I could still hear the now distant thunder to the East, the torrid Summer Sunday afternoon had now turn to a cool and breezy Summer evening, perfect to go out after supper and play some softball. -- Gary

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07/19/2014 07:49.36 PM Report This Comment  
  Summer Sunday Afternoon, The Tempest, Part II
Once home I had to think on what would be a good vantage point from which to watch the storm. The recessed front porch had only a limited view; great as a semi-sheltered den for watching snowstorms but not open enough for witnessing the storm of the Summer. The best place, I decided, was in the Old House with the garage door opened. The Old House (subject of a future set of blogs) had been converted to a garage. One could sit just inside out of the worst of the rain and look out over the entire garden valley, the apple orchard, and the hill beyond (which is now my own backyard on the home property). The Old House still had all of its original windows (as it still does to this very day) so I could see in three directions.

Inside the Old House it was sweltering, but already the wind was picking up out of the West and the sky was lowering and glowering, getting darker by the minute. I opened the back door that looked out to the wooden shed and then set up a chair at the main entry. The cross-breeze immediately blew in from the superheated shed through the Old House and in a few moments I was as cool as if the garage had been air-conditioned. I can only describe it as satisfying to feel the building and its adjoining shed being cooled 30 degrees in ten minutes by the katabatic winds swooping down from the jet stream at the tops of the thunderheads. The thunder increased in volume and tempo as I counted after each lightning flash until I was startled in spite of myself by the expected "boom!". "One second for every thousand feet" was what I was taught to be the speed of sound and how to gauge the distance of a storm. When the lightning flash and thunder blast became almost simultaneous the winds whipped up into a roar, bending the pines and poplars eastward while the first few big drops fell. The last thing I usually notice before a thunderstorm hits is how the undersides of the poplar leaves show up all silver in the wind. Many years ago, while taking an Astronomy class in the Air Force, I did a paper on book about natural weather predicting and the author stated that this was one of the signs of an approaching thunderstorm. The author warned the reader that because this occurred just before a storm broke, the warning was akin to telling a man he was going to fall to his death as he was passing the fifth floor window! (Please scroll up for Part III)

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07/19/2014 07:46.52 PM Report This Comment  
  Summer Sunday Afternoon, The Tempest, Part I
There was a wonderful quote by Henry James that was posted on Facebook the other day by my dear friend 'berta which stated “Summer afternoon--- summer afternoon; to me those have always been the two most beautiful words in the English language.”

I'd have to agree. Each one of us could regale the rest with a special memory of such an afternoon. I remember one in the Summer of '73, a Sunday afternoon that was so hot that this fourteen year-old boy had no desire to play softball nor go fishing, much less work out in the fields (though, I have to admit, Pa and Ma were sticklers about not doing unnecessary work on the Sabbath). I spent an hour listening to the Brewer's game on radio in the bedroom until the heat drove me out into the shade of the "Great Maple" in the front yard next to the "Old House". I listened to the game for another hour until the static from the approaching thunderstorms rendered my little transistor AM radio useless. At that point I could see the massive thunderheads approaching from the West. Despite the heat, I took my bicycle out to the top of a hill where I could see all the cumulonimbus clouds in all their glory. They were multi-colored, blue-black at the bottoms, laden with raindrops, and then brightening until they were brilliantly white at the tops, sometimes up to 60,000 feet in altitude. When they finally blotted out the Sun I turned back home. (Please scroll up for part II)

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07/19/2014 07:40.27 PM Report This Comment  
  Culling, Part IV
Now as for bunnies, we're having a tremendous crop of new-borns here at La Ferme Sabloneuse. All the rabbits are safe at this time of year. My Ruthie is always chagrined when she sees me on my hands and knees in the grass a few feet away from a young rabbit, talking to it and seeing just how close it will let me get. There's an adult rabbit that I'll find every morning under the bird feeder as I make my way to the garage and it will stay and watch me as I fill the feeder. I tell it that for now, we are friends, but, as the bunny population expands geometrically, I shall be forced to do some hunting/culling come Winter, (See "Free Range Bunnies" August of 2012).

Just today, My Ruthie, Andrew, and Liz were all kneeling on the living room couch next to the bay window, watching three very young rabbit kittens feeding, playing, and taking dust baths in the front yard. I am glad that I'm able to provide habitat for wildlife here at La Ferme Sabloneus; it is, after all, the "mission statement" of my HobbyFarms blog site. I certainly do not consider them to be vermin, even if they do attack the flower beds on occasion. I do, however, consider them as a partially domesticated and totally consumable product of our farm. They too, must be culled, but unlike vermin, they are valued and nurtured and I am gratified that I can provide them with a rich habitat at La Ferme Sabloneuse. --Gary

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07/12/2014 06:59.14 PM Report This Comment  
  Culling, Part III
(Gary's note: If anyone is offended by the killing of any animal, you might want to skip this post)

About a year ago I began a series of blog posts on culling, c'est-a-dire (that is to say) the destruction of some organisms in order to aid the growth of others that we humans subjectively decide are more desirable. In the garden and out in the fields it's a no-brainer. We weed out anything that we haven't planted. The definition of a weed is simply that it's a plant that grows where it's not wanted. I don't want to insult any reader's intelligence by giving examples, but still, I feel moved to point out while lamb's quarter and pigweed are unwanted among the crop rows, they are highly prized and useful when harvested along the edge of the fields and fed to pigs and ducks.

You get the idea. When talking about weeding, it's a universally-accepted given. When talking about animals however, things get quite a bit more dicey. Vegans would argue that it is wrong for us to impose our needs on any other animal, much less killing them for our needs. As a countryman, I know better. I suppose I could try to address the arguments that those folks offer, but what would be the point? In this venue, (c'est-a-dire, a countryman's blog) I'm writing to those of a kindred spirit. In addition to "culling the herd" or "culling the flock" which is simply using our God-given intellect to choose the best to breed, we must also protect the herd and/or flock by killing predating and parasitic species which threaten them.

As I must've mentioned last year, the species that I subjectively classify as "vermin" are chipmunks, red squirrels, starlings, grackles, and cowbirds. I kill them all when I can. I have an old-fashioned hand-pumped single shot pellet gun that I keep on the table in the garage porch. In other years past, I've used Eldest Brother David's .22 revolver with a single short round in the cylinder or Pa's .22 auto with a ten round mag. This year I must've killed over twenty chipmunks so far. I've killed a couple of starlings and after I learned that some grey squirrels were wrecking my bird feeder, I brought out the .410 shotgun and dispatched one of those as well. (Please scroll up for Part IV)

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07/12/2014 06:58.03 PM Report This Comment  
  Big Fish
I wish I had Mrs. Ruthie's 'look', because I got stuck with a huge deer head in my entry way! Loved the story, Gary!

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07/06/2014 07:15.56 PM Report This Comment  
  Knee-high by the Fourth
Okay, we've discussed this before but every year at this time we countrymen and women pause and take stock of how our crops are doing compared with previous years. That's why for decades country folks have bought large calendars with enough room to pencil in the pertinent information of each day: temps, weather, and which crops have sprouted. One can always be sure that on the Fourth of July, the height of the corn was recorded. As I've must've mentioned in the past, the "knee-high" metric was applied over 200 years ago to corn and while the phrase has survived unto our times the genetic quality of maize has been doubled and re-doubled to growth and yields that would have astounded our country forbears.

At La Ferme Sabloneuse, the corn is at knee-high and above. Considering that I planted almost two weeks late, I am gratified at the progress. The peas are blossoming and I was able to do the first cutting of lettuce for a 4th of July Salad. While cutting some brush and new growth along the lawn's edge at the Homestead I noticed that my blackcaps have been pollinated and are forming up nicely. I have green tomatoes and the beginnings of bell peppers. All in all I cannot complain about how my gardens are doing.

As for the flowers, I've seen the first wild tiger lilies blooming and our own garden variety tiger lilies (or Turkmen's Cap) are unfolding as well. The tiger lilies, along with the black-eyed Susans, are the first flowers of High Summer. Today I saw the first 'Susans' and my oft-praised daisies are still hanging in there (much to my delight!). I can also report that the first marsh milkweeds and harebells are unfolding as well. (The two newest photos are of the daisies and tiger lillies near our garage at the home property) It's been a happy 4th of July and I am optimistic about the rest of our growing season. --Gary

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07/05/2014 08:50.15 PM Report This Comment  
  Big Fish, Part II
It wasn't until a few years ago that Eldest Brother David told me that the plywood painting still existed and sat among the stowed items in the hall's upper story. For the last 40 some years the parish ran a Wednesday rummage sale at the hall during the warm months of the year. David, during his retired years, ran the bookstore. Anyways, once a year or so, I would visit him at the hall and go up and look at the big fish.

Last Wednesday night dear Belle Soeur Susie dropped by to tell me that the folks at the hall were going to clean out the storage and that if I wanted the "Big Fish", I could have it, only that I'd better get it out of there soon. So I got Andrew and we went down to the hall and hauled the plywood board down from the second floor and brought it home. I had My Ruthie take a few pics of it and then last Friday when I picked up Tommy to visit Ma at the nursing home I told him to bring along a pair of gloves because I had a surprise for him. When we returned to my place and I showed him the painting, I was chagrined to find that Tommy didn't want it. He said that he had no place to put it. I was okay with that. What Tommy told me later is that his internal voice was screaming, "You told me to bring gloves because you said you had a present for me! I thought I was gonna get a nice hot casserole dish that Ruthie made but instead, you're giving me an ugly fish on a plywood board?" (The latest photo on this site is of Tommy and me with the Big Fish in front of my garage.)

When I told my Ruthie that Tommy said that I could keep the painting her immediate response was, "Uh, you could keep it down in Bill's Shack." (You can find a photo of "Bill's Shack" on pg 3 of photos on this blog site, the fourth photo. To read a description of it, please refer to my blog post of 10-23-2012.) In response to my puzzled look she added, "Don't get me wrong. I understand what it means to you, but it's just a big fish on a board!" I was okay with that too.

Come to think of it, when I remarked to Susie that I wished that I had brought the painting to Eldest Brother David a few years back so that he might've enjoyed it; her noncommittal response must've hidden her own internal voice shouting, "Like I would've wanted to see that ugly big fish on a board staring at me every time I drove into our garage!"

So now Pa's Big Fish swims alone in the shadows of Bill's Shack. Tommy said that he would've liked to have told me that it was fitting that the lasting creations of those two men were united; but that it sounded so much like New Age psycho-babble that he never could've said it with a straight face. Still, I suppose that whenever I feel the need, I can walk down there and take a look at it. The Big Fish is back where it was spawned, even if I'm the only one who really appreciates it. --Gary

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07/02/2014 08:41.21 PM Report This Comment  
  Big Fish
Back in the late 1950s and early 60s our St. Patrick Parish used to have its annual Church Bazaar each Summer. The Bazaar took place in and around the old "Woodmen's Hall" that had been bought by the parish. As the youngest, I remember less than most but I do remember the old church hall being as hot as heck while scores of folks lined up to eat my Aunt Jenny's cooking. Big Brother Tommy told me how he remembered her slaving and sweating for the multiple and massive gas ranges as she directed the "church ladies" in order to feed perhaps 200 people. Aunt Jenny hardly ever went to church, but she was the "go to gal" for Father Geenen when it came to running an operation such as this one.

Now my Pa and Uncle John Larson ran the "fish pond". It was a stall under a tent where the kids would pay a dime and then take a toy fishing pole and toss the line over a high piece of plywood. Me and my brothers would sit on the other side hid from view by the plywood and canvas and listen for Pa or Uncle John to say, "Well here's a nice young man (or lass) that wants to fish!" We would then attach the appropriate toy and tug on the line. I felt important sitting in the cool, grassy shade amongst all those cheap, brightly colored, plastic toys. (I'll be darned if I can remember what a single one looked like, all I know is that they were wrapped in cellophane and were nicer than anything I could afford and the thought never entered my head to filch one because I would've shamed Ma and Pa.) Sometimes my brother Wayne would look through the crack in the plywood and see who the kid was that was fishing. If he didn't like him or her (and there seemed to be plenty that he didn't) he would put the crappiest toy he could find on the line.

The reason for this story is the big fish that Pa painted on the front of the plywood. One year he decided that he wanted to paint. At first he got the old "paint-by-numbers" kits to do during the Winter. Then, one Summer as the Bazaar approached, he decided to paint a musky on the big plywood front. Using the cover of a Field & Stream magazine as a model, he spent weeks painting the big fish in painstaking detail. I don't know if he ever got any compliments on it but he sure was proud of his painting! (Part II will appear this Wednesday. --Gary)

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06/28/2014 08:30.07 PM Report This Comment  
The essence of all your posts, Gary, are a reflection on how we as a society really need to slow down a bit, so we don't miss out on the true beauties of life. Keep searching, and posting, about your quest for new blooms, new life and new growth in your garden, because it is also reflecting life at its finest in the same way. (Excellent quote, Roberta!)

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06/22/2014 07:49.53 AM Report This Comment  
Just like last year, this Summer's growth is late. Still my strawberries are at their peak and the hairy vetch is blossoming. The blackberries and raspberries are just now opening up, as I had predicted in my last posting. All the usual wildflowers of this time of year have made their expected, yet still wondrous appearances: white campion, harebells, wild geraniums and anemones, basically the same that I've mentioned at this time each of the past two years.

I am afraid that I might alienate the precious few readers of these posts by simply writing about what flowers have bloomed and when. Still, I am reminded of Katsumoto's line in "The Last Samurai: "The perfect blossom is a rare thing. You could spend your life looking for one, and it would not be a wasted life." So it is, I think, in the life of a true Countryman or Woman. Just simply observing and recording the events of a year in Nature could never be a waste of time.

The fireflies are now out in full force. As our friend Liz posted, they light up the fields like so many blinking Christmas tree lights. Unfortunately, the hated rosebugs, (Japanese beetles) have appeared as well. Two nights ago I sprayed our rosebush, which, like last year, is ready to produce an extraordinary amount of flowers. I can only hope to save enough of the pale pink roses to take one or two in for My Ruthie and for Ma in the nursing home.

The last thought I'd like to leave you in this year's Midsummer posting is a quote that our friend 'berta shared tonight. It's by a lady who goes by the name of "Starhawk" (I love that!): "Happy Summer Solstice! Summer Solstice, the longest day and shortest night of the year, when the sun reaches its peak, but then begins to decline. Solstice reminds us that the wheel must always turn, all things must pass, the flower must fade for the fruit to form. So love it all the more, and appreciate more deeply those moments of perfect beauty, knowing they will fade away like the sunset. And yet, like the sunrise, always they return again." -- Gary

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06/21/2014 07:47.40 PM Report This Comment  
  June, Part II
This post could also be titled "Bugs and Blooms, Part II" Entering into mid-June, my gardens are taking off. The bridal wreaths, perhaps the most unsung bloom of Summer, are unfolding everywhere and those who've managed to keep their peonies safe from the assault of the ants are enjoying those blooms as well. Both the wild and tame columbine are also out in force for their own short-lived magnificence.

The snowball tree next to the garage is shedding its petals. The flower bed next to the garage will soon have a delicate white carpet for a week or so before it is blown away by the Summer breezes. And the daisies! How I love them! As I did last year, I purposely mowed around patches of them in the lawn and now they are all opening. The same goes for the orange and yellow hawkweed; they too are opening in any and all un-mowed ground at La Ferme Sabloneuse. So what blooms are "on deck"? Why the blackberry and raspberry blossoms! You wouldn't think they would give out much of a scent, but, as I alluded to a few posts back, there are so many in our front woods that on a warm wet night you can almost drink in their flavor.

Now as for bugs; still no fireflies, which I can hardly believe, but the June bugs are out. I remember when I was a boy pedaling my bike home in the late evening those June bugs would fly in out of the darkness and whack me in the head so hard I thought they were shot from a gun!

While I love late Summer, Autumn, and late Autumn the best, I am now, in the September of my life, only now willing to admit how much I love (and envy) the early Summer of June. --Gary

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06/14/2014 07:46.23 PM Report This Comment  
  June, Part I
Last year I had written about the magic of June, at least to schoolboys like Tommy and me way back when. This year I have to say that as a result of the worst Winter of my life, this June means more to me than any before. The other night I absolutely treasured the evening song of the robin in our front yard. As I'd mentioned a year ago, this song only lasts until the end of June. The same goes for the Oriole and the Rose-breasted Grosbeak. Knowing all too well that this time is all too fleeting, I treasure it; I treasure it; there's no other word that describes it so well. As I get older and realize that each Summer is closer to a final Summer, I treasure it all the more. My Ruthie, in her inimitable way, can capture the treasures of each year with her camera. For me, I try to hold on to the sights, sounds, and smells by writing down what I love about June.

Of course this has been done better by others. The poem "What is So Rare As a Day in June" by James Russell Lowell puts into verse what I can only feel inside. I've selected two verses that I think apply best:

"Now is the high-tide of the year,
And whatever of life hath ebbed away
Comes flooding back with a ripply cheer,
Into every bare inlet and creek and bay; ...."

"... Joy comes, grief goes, we know not how;
Everything is happy now,
Everything is upward striving;
'Tis as easy now for the heart to be true
As for grass to be green or skies to be blue,..."

More about June next time. -- Gary

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06/11/2014 08:37.26 PM Report This Comment  
Your portion of the world sounds beautiful, Gary. Once again, I am going to encourage you to write a book. You, Amanda and Roberta can do one together - I'll even be the first to buy one! (And I'll offer to help with YOUR book proposal - quid pro quo!)

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06/08/2014 06:13.29 AM Report This Comment  
  Bugs and Blooms
This year the lilacs have lasted only a short while. I always try to walk along the row of bushes which border our backyard on the Home Hill a few times while they are in bloom. Malheureusement, (sadly) some individual florets have failed to open while most of the rest have started to wilt. Even Big Brother Tommy has noticed the very same thing. He told me of his dismay that he wouldn't be able to take any more lilac cuttings to Ma's room in the nursing home, (That this ol' bear of a manly man is now talking to me about his concern over the demise of scented bouquets for our mother is something that I find amusing but won't let on.)

Neamoins (nevertheless) in my last post I stated how I'd hoped that these blooms would last longer this year. Malheureusement, the opposite is true, at least with the lilacs.

But it's the same with some of my other favorite blooms. The pin cherry tree blossoms lasted only two or three days as did the apple and crab apple trees. But in their place the snow bush (tree) next to the garage is coming into full bloom and the strawberries are doing the same. I've also noticed that the wild roses have come out this week as well. I am anticipating the next floral arrival, the blackberry and raspberry blossoms. Although three weeks late like everything else, they will scenten the warm wet night air of early Summer here at La Ferme Sabloneuse

Our friend "'berta", who's a kindred spirit to my Ruthie and me, is keeping us up to date on which insects have come out so far this growing season. So far she's spotted a cicada way earlier than one would expect, and both she and we noticed the first chirps of the crickets this last week. I don't know if the crickets are early or not, but I do know that they are most noticeable in late August and early September. We all concur that we've not seen a firefly yet this year, which is dramatically later than normal.

So here's to bugs and blooms. I submit that watching the fireflies on a moist, warm June night while smelling the sweet scent of blackberry blossoms is veritably a piece of Heaven on Earth. --Gary

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06/07/2014 06:58.20 PM Report This Comment  
  Country Evening & Gratification
Beautiful, Gary. My mama would be a wee bit jealous, as Lilacs are her favorite flower and they will not grow down here. Good luck on your garden - I hope it produces more abundantly than your dreams can hold!

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06/06/2014 05:42.42 AM Report This Comment  
One evening a couple of months ago, as I was sorting through the mail-order seeds that My Ruthie had ordered, my son Andrew and his girlfriend Liz came up from his "man cave" in the basement. "We're hungry." He explained with a smile.
I smiled back and tossed him a package of sweet corn seed. "Here," I told him, "plant these and in less than three months you'll have more than enough to eat." Andrew wasn't amused but Liz, being a farmer's daughter, thought it was funny.
A Countryman knows that there is no such thing as "instant gratification". Since the Fall of Adam, when God told him, "By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food ..." (Genesis 3-19), country folks have learned that you have to be patient when working the land. How many of us have planted perennials, shrubs and trees knowing full well that it will take months, years, and even decades before we see the final result. Indeed, the two quotes that come to mind are: "He who plants trees benefits another generation." -- Caecilius Statius, and “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” – Chinese Proverb
I had related in a past blog how Pa had planted Norway pine seedlings during the last year of his life. He explained to Ma that it would make good cover for deer hunting. Ma asked him, "Do you think that you'll live forever?"
"I can try!" was Pa's retort. While I truly believe that it was Pa's intention to live for a good long while (after all, his mother lived to be 98) I think that he also felt the call to improve the land that was his. I think that it is a visceral urge of every Countryman and woman to leave their property more viable and vibrant (c'est-a-dire) more full of life, than when they first acquired it. Lord knows that my Ruthie and I have spent the last 28 years trying to do the same thing on our home property.

I find that despite my earlier statements in this posting, I must admit that, like every year at this time, I am surprised at how fast the growing season can leave a gardener in its wake. In less than a week after I'd planted the gardens, beans and corn were already poking through the soil. This week I was already behind in the second mowing and first weed whacking of the year. I also must put on netting on the Valley Garden within the next week or risk the deer nipping off the corn and squash shoots.

So, in a paradox of logic; while I patiently await the growth of this year's crops, I am hard pressed to keep up with the tasks of early Summer. -- Gary

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06/04/2014 08:15.50 PM Report This Comment  
  Country Evening
This year, more than ever before, I find myself glorying (yes, glorying, if it can be used as a gerund) in Spring. As I've probably said before, this last Winter was the worst in my memory. As a result, these last two weeks of fine weather has been like balm to my soul.

Right now, the apple trees, crab apples, lilacs, and creeping phlox are all in full bloom. When I was mowing grass at the Homestead, the Southern breeze would bring to me the strong lilac scent from Ma's big bush (tree) in the front yard. When I was filling the birdbaths at my own place I noticed for the first time, how my Ruthie's creeping phlox filled the air with their sweetness.

Perhaps because of the severity of the past Winter, and the lateness of this Spring, I also find myself wishing that these blooms would last longer than just a week or so. I know that the growing season is pushing along full bore, as if making up for lost time, but I am a little gun-shy from last Winter and I am wistful in wishing that this Summer would go by a little slower.

Nevertheless, I am enjoying this time of year. One evening this week at sunset, I walked along all our lilac bushes (and there's quite a few!). I then checked the vegetable gardens and was encouraged by all the new growth poking up. As the sun disappeared in the Northwest sky and the mosquitoes came out in droves, I was about to go inside when a skein of geese flew right over my hill. It was so quiet I could hear the flapping of their wings. I was so moved by it all that I raised my arms in joy and triumph at just being alive and allowed to experience the rebirth of another country year. --Gary

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05/31/2014 08:07.22 PM Report This Comment  
As usual, this is a heartfelt post, and I so enjoyed it. I'm getting ready to till up a flower bed right by the house, and you've given me an idea. It will be a memory garden. In honor of your daddy and brother, I will plant some Rosemary (for remembrance) in amongst the daisies, zinnias and lavender that I'll plant in memory of my aunts Dot and Emily and my farming mentor, Kathleen. They loved the simplicity of those flowers. If you and Mrs. Ruthie have a favorite flower (that will grow here in the South), let me know and I'll tuck some in as well!

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05/25/2014 06:51.31 AM Report This Comment  
  Honoring the Dead, Part II
Honoring the Dead. The axe had belonged to My Ruthie's father George. The only writing stamped on it reads: "Cold Forged". I estimate that it must be over a century old. As I sat in the garage porch sharpening it I prayed to ol' George to safeguard me against any mishap and to ask God to help me in my work on the land. Now the "Cumberland Trail" was what David and Ma had named the path that led past the apple orchard in the valley up the eastern part of my Home Hill and then over to David's property. David and Belle Soeur Susie had in the past kept the trail open. The three scraps of plowed ground was what David had prepared last year in hopes of attracting deer for that year's hunting season. It hadn't turned out that way, as you now know. We never hunted last Autumn.

So on that day I honored the dead. I used George's axe to help me clear the Cumberland as I pushed the wheelbarrow throughout the length of La Ferme Sabloneuse, planting three or four pumpkins seeds in each of the plots that David had plowed out and then sprinkling Miracle Grow on them. On one of the plots I saw that last year's deposit of detritus had caused lettuce plants and apple seedlings to sprout. Knowing full well that it was false hope, I fertilized those as well.

I honored the dead; by using their tools, their desires, and what was important both to them and their loved ones to carry on in our stewardship of the land. It is to me the best way to keep them alive in my heart. --Gary

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05/24/2014 08:36.42 PM Report This Comment  
  Honoring the Dead, Part I
This Monday, as I do every year, I will attend a special Mass at St. Patrick's and then walk over to the Stiles cemetery and watch the elderly gentlemen of American Legion Post 523 render honors. This was the post that Pa and Eldest Brother David had belonged to. Pa was it's Commander back in the 70's and Big Brother Tommy and I used to help him put the flags on the graves. On Monday, the Legion Commander will tell the honor guard detail to: "Honor the Dead."

Honoring the Dead. Those few who follow these postings know that this Memorial Day will mean even more than usual. It is the first that Eldest Brother will have a flag over his grave. This afternoon I got My Ruthie to come with me and take a photo of his grave. I had been worried that the Legion folks wouldn't know to put one on. A few years past, the Memorial Day after my first cousin Paul Truckey had passed, there wasn't a flag over his grave and I know it upset his extended family, including me. I hadn't had to worry with David's flag. It's fluttering brightly over a shiny new American Legion flag stand. Just feet away, Pa's flag is fluttering as well. It did my heart good to see it.

Honoring the Dead. We do it in many ways. The other day I had planted the gardens. Then, late in the day, as the Sun was setting amidst a warm Southern wind, I put the remainder of my pumpkins seeds, a trowel, some Miracle Grow, an axe, a set of branch clippers and a saw in a wheelbarrow and I set out to do two things: To clear out the undergrowth that threatened to close in on the Cumberland Trail and to plant pumpkin seeds in the three patches of ground that Eldest Brother had plowed out last year in front of his deer towers. (Please scroll up for Part II)

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05/24/2014 08:32.20 PM Report This Comment  
When I do that, Randy says I'm scatterbrained! We've had beautiful days lately to do just that, though, and my spring to do list is filling up. Enjoy this beautiful weather, Gary!

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05/22/2014 03:37.26 AM Report This Comment  
  Spring Putzing
I had tried to find an earlier blog of mine that had to do with "putzing". I know that it had to do with trying to start one job and then continuing to find other jobs cropping up as I plugged along. This Spring is no different. Much to my amusement, I found that as time and weather finally permitted me to start working on tasks outdoors, I discovered more jobs to do.

One night after work I started to pick up the fallen branches from the big birch in the backyard. It was then that I noticed that the first asparagus sprouts were coming up. Looking at these made me also see that all the raised garden beds needed to be turned over and that the garden itself had to be roto-tilled, along with the patch of garden I want to cultivate in the Valley Garden. When I came in from outside I saw the cardboard box containing the blueberry seedling that I had ordered sitting on the table.

Soooo....... during the next few evenings after work I got the roto-tiller from Belle-Soeur Susie and I ran it through the gardens that I will use this year. I also spaded over the raised beds and on a rainy evening planted the blueberry plant. Finally, one night last week I posted the following:

"Worked ten hours today, then, when I got home I fertilized the garden, planted snow peas, started some peat pots of pumpkins and squash, cleaned out last year's asparagus growth, put up some fencing for my blueberry seedling, and then sat for a few minutes and watched the Tree Sparrows work on the feeder. Now it's Kessler's and Leinenkugel's and waiting for the Castle Season Finale."

Spring Putzing. It is basically bouncing from one task to another, using it all as an excuse to enjoy being outdoors during Springtime. --Gary

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05/21/2014 07:37.02 PM Report This Comment  
Thank you, Amanda. Thank you for such a lovely image. I could almost here the children's laughter! We also love the idea of a simple life such as that, and often try to include as much of it as we can. So, do I now need to start pestering you to start writing, like I do your dad? I can see where you get your way with words. Gary - she's a keeper. And if you ever want to put her up for adoption, Randy and I could surely use a new daughter with farm experience!

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05/18/2014 07:16.44 AM Report This Comment  
  Farming, Old and New, Part II
The sun was out, the grass was finally green, the sky blue as can be with big fluffy white clouds. There were the gorgeous horses calmly grazing, happy kids playing in the yard, a mother-like woman was outside seeming to plan out the garden for the summer, while the man of the house was fixing a fence. It was like something off a modern day Norman Rockwell- like greeting card. It was just so peaceful, and calming, and happy.

I am not a crier. I don't cry unless the situation really warrants it. But on this day, even my tough outward appearance had to crack a bit and allow a few minutes of tear-filled eyes at the beautiful picture before me. The scene I had witnessed allowed me a brief glimpse into a simpler lifestyle, while I was driving my brand new GPS controlled tractor that drives itself, pulling a brand new vertical till. I will keep that vision tucked in away in my head for the rest of my life. Moments like that are a rare beauty and the power of those moments can make a bad day seem a little bit better and easier. --Amanda Truckey

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05/17/2014 07:15.29 PM Report This Comment  
  Farming, Old and New, Part I
As every farmer knows, field work has started across the country, of course leading into the chaotic planting season. With so many fields that our farming company has, crews get split up into different areas. Matt and I were assigned to what is simply called “The Farm” The Farm isn't a farm, it's more of a collection of a few dozen pivots that are close to each other and located by one of our sets of grain bins and a grain dryer. The Farm is located about fifteen miles north across the South Dakota border. The road system in rural South Dakota is a rough one, filled with mostly dirt and gravel roads that could be smooth one day and an absolute rough mess the next.

A weeks ago Matt and I were working some land bordering a Hutterite colony. [Editor's (or rather, Gary's) note:] "Hutterites are a communal branch of Anabaptists who, like the Amish and Mennonites, trace their roots to the Radical Reformation of the 16th Century" --Wikipedia] We started working the end of the field farthest from the main house and a few small barns. By the time we worked our way to the near edge of it, I witnessed one of the most peaceful scenes that I've seen in awhile. There were a few perfectly fenced and kept horse pastures. A few of them had a couple beautiful horses in it just lazily grazing. They looked so content and well-taken-care of; their coats were just gleaming in the sun. One of the pastures had three or so fat miniature horses in it. About six or so children had wandered over, crawled up on the fence and were sitting on it watching Matt and I. There was one little boy who was too small and young to get up there, so an older boy about fourteen jumped down and helped him up, then sat him in his lap. Every time we passed they would wave frantically, so I would wave back and beep my horn at them. You could just see them all laugh like only little kids do. A little bit later a young girl (maybe four or so) came outside. I waved and honked at her too. She laughed, placing her hands over her mouth in joy. Then she went under the fence to the minis, and this chubby little bay who was clearly up in years with grey lining his face wandered over to her. This was clearly "her horse, his human". He went right up to her and nuzzled her face and bonnet covered hair, then nudged at her pockets in her dress clearly expecting a treat; you could just see her giggle happily. She clambered up on his back, he reached around, nudged her foot, waited for her to get settled, then went back to grazing. If he had to move, he would move slowly almost like he didn't want her to fall or anything. (Scroll up for part II)

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05/17/2014 07:08.07 PM Report This Comment  
  Mother's Day at La Ferme Sabloneuse
Surprise blog post tonight. This Mother's Day at Sandy Farm, Andrew and his girlfriend Liz not only gave My Ruthie a gift card, Andrew also got my Ma a plant for her room. In honor of this day, my Ruthie got some great photos of the mallard that has been roosting in our backyard at the base of the big birch tree that Ruthie had planted for me some 20 years ago. We call her "Momma Ducky". (Not too imaginative, but good enough) Later in the day, Amanda (my Punky) called Ruth to wish her a happy Mother's Day.

So this evening Andrew, Liz, Big Brother Tommy and I went to the nursing home. We visited my Ma and then Andrew, Liz, and I paid a visit to Liz's grandma who's also a resident there. After we got home, I took Liz to see Momma Ducky and then I cut this year's first asparagus stalks for Ruthie in honor of the day.

As I've stated before, I've always longed for a life where I could establish and maintain a wildlife habitat for a number of species. Today I was able to observe a mallard hen setting on a clutch of eggs while I harvested the first cutting of asparagus for the mother of my children. It was a nice day. -- Gary

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05/11/2014 08:42.07 PM Report This Comment  
  Sources, Part VII
When they got back to the school the boy gave the bag of nuts back to Don Camillo. "When you come back from outside they take everything like this away," he explained in a low voice. "That's where I sleep, said the boy, pointing to a barred second-storey window with a box-like protuberance under it that blocked the sight of the ground below." The boy then pointed to a similarly barred window on the ground level. "In that hall are the closets where we hang our clothes," he said. "I'll try to walk along it on my way upstairs and that way I'll be able to wave goodbye."

Don Camillo waited for the boy to appear at the window. The narration continues: "After what seemed like an endless time, he heard a whisper. Giacomino had opened a window and was waving to him from behind the bars. Don Camillo walked over and handed him the bag of nuts. Then he started to walk away, but something made him turn back. He could see nothing of Giacomino but a pair of eyes, but these eyes were so filled with tears that Don Camillo broke out in a cold perspiration. By some mysterious process his dangerously powerful hands found themselves twisting the iron bars and the iron bars bent and gave away. When the opening was large enough, Don Camillo stretched out an arm, grasped the boy's collar and pulled him through."

Later, as the boy slept on Don Camillo's couch, a frantic old man Grolini showed up waving a telegraph from the school's headmaster. He told the priest that the boy had run away and that he would kill him when he saw him. "Nothing doing," Don Camillo replied, "That boy was made to follow in your footsteps and live on the land. He simply can't stay away from the country." Don Camillo then frightened the old man by telling him that his son could be anywhere, or nowhere, based on the old man's behavior toward him.

After sending the farmer home to fret and pray, Don Camillo waited till the next day to return Giacomino to his home. As the boy happily chased after his ecstatic dog old Grolini told the priest, "The headmaster called me up this morning. He can't understand how the boy could have twisted two heavy inron bars."

"'He's an able boy, I tell you,'" said Don Camillo. "'He'll make a very good farmer. And it's better to farm for love than to study for fear of a beating.'"

The story concludes by saying: "And Don Camillo went away very fast, because he had just felt a peanut in his pocket and couldn't wait to eat it." --Gary

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05/10/2014 08:28.51 PM Report This Comment  
  Sources, Part VI
Last time I introduced you to "The Little World of Don Camillo". This time I shall relate my favorite chapter. Its title is "Blue Sunday". It relates the visit to a boarding school that Don Camillo was forced to make on the behalf of one of his parishioners, old Grolini. The prosperous farmer was concerned about his youngest son Giacomino, who at eleven and "a quick-witted fellow", had been bundled off to boarding school with Don Camillo's assistance. Now the school had notified Grolini that his son was doing miserably and wanted him to do something about it. To placate the old man, Don Camillo agreed to go to the school on Sunday and straighten the boy out. After all, it was the big priest who had advised Grolini to send his son away to school in the first place.

When Don Camillo arrived at the school the headmaster told him that the boy was well behaved but simply refused to do any of his work. As the headmaster related: "He neatly puts down the theme subject or problem, then sits back with folded arms and waits for the time to go by. When he's asked a question, he makes no answer. First we thought he must be a perfect idiot. But we've watched him and listened to him talk to his companions, and we find he isn't an idiot at all. Quite the contrary."

Upon seeing the boy, Don Camillo was amazed at how thin and pale he looked. The priest took the boy for a walk out into the country and prepared himself to give him a severe scolding. Instead the boy asked him if he could run. "A run?" said Don Camillo severely. "Can't you run during recreation at school?"

"Yes, but not very far," the boy answered. "There's always a wall in the way." As the story relates: "Giacomino was off like a bolt of lightning, and Don Camillo saw him cross the field, duck under a fence and run parallel to it under some bare grapevines. A few minutes later he came back, with his eyes and cheeks glowing." A minute later the boy climbed an elm tree and found a clump of grapes missed by the harvesters. He went on to talk about how at home the grapes must by now have been hung out to dry.

As the two made their way back to the school, Don Camillo's lecture still unspoken, they happened across a street vendor selling roast chestnuts and peanuts. The priest finally gave in and bought a bag for the boy. The narration goes on to relate: "The priest held out as long as he could, and then finally stuck his hand into the bag. The taste of the nuts called up memories of the melancholy Sunday afternoons of his own youth, and filled him with a sudden sadness." (Please scroll up for Part VII)

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05/10/2014 08:23.40 PM Report This Comment  
This sounds like interesting reading. I'm gonna go see if I can find some of his books! Thanks for the reading suggestion, Gary!

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05/03/2014 07:54.50 PM Report This Comment  
  Sources, Part V
My final posts on literary sources that would appeal to a Countryman or Woman has to do with an Italian writer that you've probably never heard of. Giovanni Guareschi (1908 - 1968) was a man who could be called a reactionary by his enemies or a traditionalist by his supporters. While his fiercely traditional (yet sympathetic) Catholic views appeal to someone like me, Guareschi's devotion to rural people and their lives would appeal to any Countryman.

Guareschi celebrated the life and people of the Po Valley in northern Italy. He, while a lettered journalist, was still an Old World Countryman. His "Little World" books, set in the Po Valley, state in the preface: "People born near the Po river have heads as hard as pig iron, a highly developed sense of humor, and where politics is concerned they can get as excited as a man who has swallowed a mouse."

Guareschi goes on to say: "They are very attached to their slice of land and in spite of floods and fog, the fierce summer heat, and damp winter cold, they admit that, after all, God knew his business when He made the Little World."

Guareschi's "Little World" books has as the protagonist the extremely large and strong Don Camillo, a "simple country priest" who combats the local Communists, especially the village mayor, the almost equally large and strong "Peppone" who, despite his political leanings, is repeatedly proved to be a good and honest man, and Don Camillo's best friend. The books are set and published during the post WWII years in northern Italy. If one doesn't know the history of that time and place it is a little hard to appreciate the environment. Suffice to say, Italy was an unsettled country at that time with a number of political factions, but it is basically the same struggle as throughout all our Christian history; it is the conflict between faith and atheism. In my next post, I will relate my favorite "Little World" story of Don Camillo. --Gary

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05/03/2014 07:37.06 PM Report This Comment  
Excellent story, Gary. I love the depth to your words! I'm also a bit jealous - a Farmall Super A is my dream tractor. Randy and I have been searching for one, and hopefully, one day, the Good Lord will provide!

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04/26/2014 08:11.48 PM Report This Comment  
  Farmalls (Part II)
After I got back to the homestead, we moved the old hay wagon chassis out of the tractor shed and parked it in the lee side of the barn where it would be somewhat protected from the rain and snow. Tommy was bemused when I told him that it would be easier if he unhitched it and then pushed it by himself into its parking place. But, when he saw how easy it was for him (with his "Hoss Catwright"-like strengh) to do it, he allowed as how I'd been right for once. I then asked Tommy to take David's tractor out on the road in fourth gear to get it really warmed up. While he ran it up to Susie's house and then back to the homestead, I cranked up the 1938 Farmall after its winter's rest and got it going as well. Both times after starting those tractors I looked up to Heaven to thank God and His servant David for their help. Childish wishfulness? Maybe. Still, that's how I think. After Tommy had backed his Farmall into the tractor shed, I took Pa's old Farmall out for the same loop in order to get it warmed up. When I got to Belle-Soeur Susie's place, I saw her look out a window. As I turned it around in her drive she poked her head out of her kitchen door and yelled, "You guys are having too much fun!" She understood. Tommy and I were working through our own grief and honoring David and Pa by making sure their tractors still ran.

God! it was good to ride those two old tractors! Tommy, though he probably wouldn't express it, had to have felt the same way. The two of us remaining brothers moved equipment and ran tractors and then shut them down in the tractor shed. My Ruthie, who had walked over to the homestead to take photos (she understood what is was that we were really doing) capped the night off by remarking, "It's like your Pa and David are together again"

What a beautiful comment! Leave it to my Ruthie to think of it! Eldest Brother David had been the last to drive the "old tractor", the 1938 Farmall, back last November. I'd thought that it would've been painful to be the first to drive it this Spring. I was wrong. I do think that as we get older, we begin to understand that the vale between the departed and the living is very, very thin. I felt very close to the two Davids as we worked those tractors, the two Farmalls. --Gary

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04/26/2014 07:32.39 PM Report This Comment  
  The Two Farmalls (Part I)
So Tuesday of this last week was a day that makes me proud to be a Countryman. (If it sounds that I'm bragging on myself and "my own", I apologize, but this is the way I feel) It was my day off that day, but I was called in to work. After a day of making "time-and-a-half", I returned home to work at the homestead for Big Brother Tommy, caught a ride with him to visit Ma at the nursing home, and then worked with Tommy for an hour to try and get both Farmalls started after a Winter's layoff and bedded down together at the Homestead.

You see, Eldest Brother David, recognizing that his life's journey was nearing its end, had told Big Brother Tommy and me that he wanted us to have his circa 1950 Farmall and to bring it back to the Homestead. He also told us to take his old hay mower along with the tractor back as well. (See "Hay Making, Part IV") So last Tuesday I had planned to try and start both tractors after a long Winter's layoff. From experience, I knew that starting either or both tractors was iffy at best. So when I was at Susie's, I figured that I would have to re-charge the battery or crank-start David's Farmall and let the alternator charge it. As it turned out, when I pushed in the starter of David's Farmall, his tractor started up immediately. I needed to play with the choke and restart the thing a half-dozen times and then play with the throttle in order to get the tractor to run smoothly, but we got it running. With Belle-Soeur Susie's help, I got the hay mower hooked up and put David's Farmall in "second" and at a low throttle, brought it back home. Don't know if we'll ever use it again, but it's nice to know that we could, thanks to departed Eldest Brother. (Please scroll up for Part II)

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04/26/2014 07:26.47 PM Report This Comment  
  Listening to elders
Must vote for cousin Gary. He is full of interesting facts about our family which he could only have learned by listening to his elders. Being the youngest of a Huge generation, he didn't have any choice, lol.

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04/20/2014 04:03.43 AM Report This Comment  
Gary - I can see that I have some tremendous competition! Your version is excellent, as always, and absolutely not - you are not disqualified because you borrowed from an existing post. I am not letting you out of this competition that easily! One glitch here - it seems that if you Google your site, comments cannot be made unless you sign up to Hobby Farms. So, if any voters are reading this - head over to http://thefarmwife.com/ and vote. PLEASE do this, as Gary probably deserves more votes than I do, and I really want this to be a fair competition! (Either that or go ahead and sign up to Hobby Farms. It's a great website and offers a wealth of great information for the farmers and non-farmer alike!)

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04/19/2014 05:20.16 AM Report This Comment  
  The Farmwife on Listening to Your Edlers, Part III
During those ‘classes’, I was taught about a way of life that stemmed from poverty, simplicity and old adages that were more than cliché’s, they were a matter of survival – ‘Use it up, wear it out, make it last or do without’. There were times when I was admonished for buying something that I could have just as easily made for much less money. And I was gently guided on all things farm related – milking a cow, making cheese, cooking from scratch, hoeing a garden and even the best way to wring a chicken’s neck. Now, if that chicken was a tough old rooster, I was even given instructions on how to boil the…uh…Yipes out of it and use it in dumplings. And only once was I worried about being in the wrong classroom - when one of the ladies said she had to go home and do some ‘choking and rolling’. I was concerned that the woman was about to go home and take her frustrations out on her husband. Once Mrs. Dot quit laughing at the look on my face, she told me not to worry, but that the lady was just going home to make biscuits. When my look of horror turn to confusion, Mrs. Dot got that scary look in her eye and said, “Heavens to Betsy, child. Don’t tell us you use a rolling pin on your biscuits!” Um, well, not any more. I assure you.

I may know more about caring for my farm now than I did when we first moved here, but I also know that I will never stop learning something new every day. Because of that, I continually put into practice that same saying that I hated as a child. I really do listen to what my elders have to say, and more times than not, I will turn around and put those words of wisdom into practice. And who knows? One day soon I may even have Tom Puckett at my dinner table. After all, I finally learned that Tom is a ‘what’, and not a ‘who’ – it’s a brown gravy made from the pan drippings.
Catheads anyone? Tom Puckett will be coming and I think the two will be great dinner companions!

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04/18/2014 08:21.52 PM Report This Comment  
  The Farmwife on Listening to Your Elders, Part II
Mr. Jasper taught us how to ‘reunite’ a first calf heifer with her baby. It took a slow approach, a soft voice and a quick step back when mama wanted to kick. If you think about it, there is a life lesson there, as well. Danny and Johnny have been a wealth of information regarding the garden. George has given us some great information regarding what will and won’t grow on our property. Mrs. Dorothy is always available with a great recipe, and Mrs. Raley was very quick to instruct me in how to catch fish and frogs, and where the best water holes used to be. Each and every lesson and story contributed to both a practical and figurative life education.

By far, some of my most fun farming ‘classes’ have come from Alona’s Beauty Shop. No matter what time you go in, there is someone there who has lived it, cooked it, eaten it, grown it, killed it and kept on walking. My favorite time to go was when Mrs. Dot was there. It was a sad day in my life when she left this earth, but I will hold her lessons closely.

It was Mrs. Dot who acted as my Country Dictionary. One day, someone mentioned that they were really craving some cat heads. Mrs. Dot saw my face turn a little green and she started chuckling. “Don’t worry, honey. She ain’t gonna go out and kill no cats. What she’s wanting is some biscuits.” As my stomach settled back down, I learned that Catheads are actually large, made-from-scratch biscuits, usually served with milk gravy – with or without sausage bits. Okay. I was good with that. But then they started to reminisce about different foods they would eat. While I was sitting there, I actually learned the best way to cook a possum. And they weren’t talking biscuits here, either. I finally had to ask Mrs. Dot just where they found those possums, and was relieved to know they were freshly caught, and not road kill. Please scroll up for "Listening to Your Elders, Part III

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04/18/2014 08:13.34 PM Report This Comment  


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