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Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Loving Life

Cherie Langlois
Hobby Farms Contributing Editor

Take moments to appreciate the finer things in life
I wanted to write about something, anything else, but all I could think about last night, and again this morning, was Chris, and the final words on his Facebook page:  “I love life.”

A few weeks ago, when my daughter Kelsey got the tragic news that her 16-year-old friend had died during surgery to remove a brain tumor, she looked stunned as well as grief-stricken. 

“He was one of the most alive people I knew,” she said.  “I didn’t know he was sick.”

Last night at the memorial service, she learned he had been fighting cancer since 4th grade.  I’d only been acquainted with Chris through Kelsey – pictures she took, conversations recounted, glimpses at band performances. 

But, believe me, seeing this teen with the longish raven hair, sweet smile, the vitality that shone in his eyes, you would never have guessed.

Why is it that we so often need a brush with death, or even a death sentence, to appreciate and love life? 

Last night, I realized I’d been guilty of late: guilty of stressing about life (Endless farm chores!  Story deadlines!), worrying about life (Teen driver in the family!  Swine Flu, the Sequel!), complaining about life (Why did I have to get bursitis in my hip now, with everything that needs to be done?!), and rushing through life (gotta feed the animals fast so I can go for a fast walk and then – fast – get to work!). 

But for awhile now I haven’t truly been appreciating life, and certainly not loving it enough.  And somehow that makes the loss of this boy who wrote “I love life” feel even sadder, and even more unfair.

So last night I decided that today, so as not to feel like this gift of life was wasted on me, I would ditch my stresses, worries and complaints.  I would slow down and savor life. 

 Today, so far, I’ve experienced and loved –

• The sweet-tart taste of fresh-picked blueberries on my cereal.

• How perfect the morning air felt against my skin – not too warm, not too cool.

• The dappled gold sunlight playing over the trees and flowers.

• Talking with our silly turkeys as they trailed me around their pasture.  

• How soft my old sheep Marigold’s wool felt when I scratched her neck.

• Sticking my nose into my mare Sophie’s neck and inhaling her horsy scent.

• Listening to Kelsey play The Offspring’s tunes on her bass guitar.

I’ll try hard to keep living and loving life for the rest of today, and tomorrow, too. 
For Chris, and for myself.

~ Cherie  

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I'm sorry to hear about Chris.
Mike, Columbia, TN
Posted: 11/21/2009 8:42:29 AM
I understand how this must be the focus of your post. Is Chris'facebook page still available and can you provide the link? Not because I am a morbid person, but because, I too have discovered, after 50 some years that I too "love life". I never thought those words, or, even moreso, would have believed them, until just a few years ago after having gone through some dramatic life changes.
Now I completely understand Chris' comment and know that even facing life's ending, we can love this very moment. None of us can escape the inevitable - all things pass - but each and everyone of us can live every moment "loving life".
Terry, Jamestown, NY
Posted: 9/28/2009 7:18:26 PM
I like your haircut. Do you play softball?
Jeffers, Brunswick, OH
Posted: 9/21/2009 7:34:24 PM
It's easy to say you'll slow down & appreciate life more, but unless I'm moved out to a lonesome cave somewhere, I know life will just sweep me up again in its chaos.
wendy, round rock, TX
Posted: 9/21/2009 12:53:43 PM
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